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Solving typical sleep problems at 6-12 months, part 2

Not sleeping through the night at 6-12 months old? Let's find out why your baby wakes up and how to reduce night awakenings maximally. Without crying it out.

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Sleeping through the night

From 6 months onward, you can expect fewer night feedings. A healthy, well-feeding baby stocks up well during the day and can have an 8-12 hour stretch without or with just one feed in between.
Seemingly exhausted baby sleepingNotice the word "can" ? Indeed, at this age it is physically and mentally quite possible for your baby.

But more often than not, a number of disturbers come in and spoil the fun ...

Yours still wakes and feeds more than once?

Don't worry, it is very (!) normal. Even if all your friends claim their little ones sleep through beautifully without any issues ...

Sleep disturbers like teething, separation anxiety and illnesses typically play and may cause frequent awakenings.

Also she may still need to learn to self soothe back to sleep after a brief awake moment. As long as that's not the case, there will be more awakenings.

And then there are nightly feedings. Is she waking up to feed, or feeding because she wakes up?

Once past 6 months old, it's a thin line between feeding out of necessity or out of habit, or for comfort.

Know that it's not your baby playing tricks on you out of ill will. What typically happens is that a truly necessary feed becomes a habit – before you realize that it's not really necessary anymore. Feeding at about the same time each night creates a true hunger feeling – whether needing the food still or not. That true hunger feeling can wake up your baby, wanting to feed.

Similarly, the need for comfort and reassurance - for example during separation anxiety phases - is a legit reason for your little one to wake and maybe want a feed.

Luckily there are gentle techniques to find out why she's waking up and how to help break through this cycle.

What to do

  • Food is an important factor for healthy sleep. Since your baby will now have started solids and will eat and drink more and more different things, keep a close eye on what you offer.
Above all, avoid over-feeding, and especially do not stuff before bedtime. It is a myth that baby sleeps better with a full stomach. On the contrary her sleep will be less restful, and she may wake more easily.


But you need to strike the right balance of course. You don't want her to wake up hungry either so do offer sufficient quantities, but nicely spread throughout the day.
  • Finally, avoid over-tiredness thanks to a regular schedule and good naps.
  • If your baby keeps waking frequently at night and you cannot figure out why or how to break the cycle, you may find No-Tears Sleeping Through the Night (details and downloads here) helpful.
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