Infant and baby sleep problems are usually
harmless and temporary - although
unfortunately they may seem
to last forever ... Luckily you can avoid the worst with a few
simple tips and tricks.
Don't blame your baby ...
How many of us
have not, after
yet another sleepless night, felt a bit angrywith
our baby. We know she cannot help it, and she certainly does not
want to bug us with baby sleep problems either.
But still we may have a hard
time being all cuddly and sweet to her. And that can make us feel
guilty.
Awful as these feelings may seem towards a tiny helpless baby, they are
in fact absolutely
normal and acceptable. Most of it comes from your own
sleep deprivation.
When
we are tired, the first thing to change is our mood. It becomes much
more difficult to be cheerful and happy. That is also the first outcome
of research on sleep deprivation effects.
So, it is OK to feel like that. No need to feel guilty
about it. And also ...
No need to take it personal, she is not trying to hurt you.
A little trick
you might try is to put yourself in
her place.
Imagine how she feels and why she feels like that. Then, in stead of fighting over it, you
can deal with the infant sleep problem together.
Good sleep is not
easy for a young baby and her
parents as it
is.
A
newborn baby must develop the ability to distinguish day from
night. Then she
must develop both physically and psychologically to be able to sleep
for long stretches.
She must learn to settle all by herself and learn self
soothing when waking at night ...
A lot to cope with already, and
then there is a number of common baby sleep problems to challenge
both baby and you a bit further.
Luckily there are ways to avoid
many sleep disturbances
or, once a baby sleep problem is there, to
deal with it at best.
On to some of the most common mild infant
sleep problems below.
Mild Common infant sleep problems
Common baby sleep problems are mostly innocent and
harmless and they pass without
much
difficulty.
Understanding what is happening and
knowing a few tricks
can make all the difference and keep you and your baby sleeping well.
Teething is one of the baby milestones you do not want to
avoid of
course. But because it can be painful or uncomfortable, it easily
becomes a baby sleep disturbance.
Find out how
to avoid the worse of
baby teething and keep sleep at its best.
There are many
different opinions about if and how young babies dream,
and whether they can have nightmares or night terrors. The fact is that
something dreamlike can cause
your
baby to wake up at night.
So it's good to know about dreams,
night terrors and nightmares and how to deal with them.
Infant sleep
problems can be daunting to go through. Your baby is not
in optimal shape and you may worry. Most cases are innocent but never
hesitate to consult your doctor if you have any doubt.
Just keep being there
for you baby, sometimes there is nothing more you
can do. Don't worry if you feel unhappy towards her because that is
perfectly normal. Remember that most baby sleep problems are
temporary - just a phase - and
things will get better soon...