Sleep Disturbers - Dealing with common
infant sleep problems
All about infant
sleep problems due to
teething - baby cold - wet diaper -
nightmares - night terrors -
baby separation anxiety ...
Infant and baby sleep problems are usually
harmless and temporary - although
unfortunately they may seem
to last forever ... Luckily you can avoid the worst with a few
simple tips and tricks.
Good sleep is not easy for a young baby and her
parents as it
is.
A
newborn must develop the ability to distinguish day from
night. She
must develop both physically and psychologically to be able to sleep
for long stretches.
She must learn to settle all by herself and soothe
herself when waking at night ...
A lot to cope with already, and
then there is a number of common sleep problems to challenge
both baby and you a bit more.
Luckily there are ways to avoid
many sleep disturbers
or, once a problem is there, to
deal with it at best.
On to some of the most common infant
sleep problems below, after a gentle helpful reminder.
Gentle reminder: don't blame your baby
How many of us have not, after yet another sleepless night, felt a bit angrywith
our baby. We know she cannot help it, and she certainly does not
wants to bug us sleep problems either.
But still we may have a hard
time being all cuddly and sweet to her. And that can make us feel
guilty.
Awful as these feelings may seem towards a tiny helpless baby, they are
in fact absolutely
normal and acceptable. Most of it comes from your own
sleep deprivation.
When
we are tired, the first thing to change is our mood.
It becomes much
more difficult to be cheerful and happy. That is also the first outcome
of
typical sleep deprivation research experiments.
So, it is OK to feel like that. No need to feel guilty
about it. And also ...
No need to take it personal, she is not trying to hurt you.
A little trick
your might try for you to help your baby better, is to put yourself in
her place.
Imagine how she feels and why she feels like that. Then, in stead of fighting over it, you
can deal with the sleep problem together.
Common infant sleep problems
Common baby sleep problems are mostly innocent and pass without
much
difficulty. Understanding what is happening and
knowing a few tricks
can make all the difference and keep you sleeping well.
Baby
separation
anxiety is an important developmental phase. It is when
she learns that she is an individual and takes the first steps towards
independence.
But her fear of losing you is real and may make it difficult for her to
sleep well. Luckily there is a number of things you can do to guide her
through this phase successfully.
There are many
different opinions about if and how young babies dream,
and whether they can have nightmares or night terrors. The fact is that
something dreamlike can cause
your
baby to wake up at night.
So it's good to know about dreams,
night terrors and nightmares and how to deal with them.
Infant sleep problems can be daunting to go through. Your baby is not
in optimal shape and you may worry. Most cases are innocent but never
hesitate to consult your doctor if you have any doubt.
Just keep being there for you baby, sometimes there is nothing more you
can do. Don't worry if you feel unhappy towards her because that is
perfectly normal. Remember that most infant sleep problems are
temporary - just a phase - and
things will get better soon...