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|... needs help falling asleep (nursing, holding, rocking, ...)||Use
age-appropriate, gentle & progressive techniques to teach
your baby lasting self soothing skills. There is no need for crying it
Start with these basic tips and advice to improve self soothing.
If you want to take it a step further (and faster), you can opt to follow the steps in my "3-step self soothing solution". It helps to efficiently wean from nursing, holding or otherwise helping to sleep. But do start with the info in the link just mentioned, it might be all you need to make the right changes!
wakes up too many times at night
the cause(s) of the frequent wakings, then remedy them.
With the hourly wakings action plan you will go through the list of the 12 most common causes of unnecessary nightly wakings. Most parents find at least one or two culprits that keep their baby from sleeping through for longer. For each cause, you will also find age-appropriate techniques to remedy.
takes too few or too short naps
||Find the best-fitting schedule for
your baby's age and needs right now,
extend naps and/or work on self soothing at naptime.
For basic information and best-practice tips for naps, read the daytime sleep essentials article.
For faster results, in my award-winning naps guide you will find doable step-by-step instructions to adapt your baby's daily schedule precisely to her needs so that she can truly sleep well for naps.
To keep a daytime sleep diary and learn how to recognize your baby or toddler's sleepy signs, download the Sleepy Signs Journal (printable diary template).
teething pain all day long, not just before bed or at night. Prefer
Apply as many of the "natural or homemade" teething remedies as you can.
Important! The only way to minimize sleep problems due to teething is to keep up or re-enforce all basic good habits such as a safe and pleasant sleeping environment, a regular sleep schedule, bedtime routine and self soothing practice - all while being flexible enough to comfort and soothe your baby when in pain.
still feeds at night but I think she could sleep through the night
nightly feeds with careful progressive techniques and look into daytime
First of all though, ensure that you have all the prerequisites for sleeping through the night well in place, and have not slacked with any of them. When trying to reduce night feeds, only tackle one at a time, and do so gradually (no cold turkey as that almost always makes things worse).
Consider doing the complete 3-step sleeping through program, which includes the most efficient and safe ways to increase daytime food intake while gradually reducing night time feeds. You will work thoroughly on self soothing as well.
Remember not to give an extra big feed right before bed: in stead of avoiding night feeds, this leads to restless and unhealthy sleep.
wakes up very early in the morning
a well-timed bedtime, good naps and encourage longer nights with
Contrary to common beliefs, an earlier bedtime - i.e. avoiding all over-tiredness at the start of the night - often and at any age truly helps extend the night.
Improving naps is important to get better and longer nights.
To help extend the night: treat the early waking as a night waking (remain in bedroom, no lights on, no activity, etc. even if not sleeping) and/or delay breakfast (don't do this if your baby is too young or her health condition does not allow to go without food for long!).
Nearing toddler hood, a toddler alarm clock is the most effective way to extend the night. A sticker reward chart is a great help too.
only sleeps on me / in my bed / when held or in a swing /
stroller / car seat
wean toward more sleep independence with effective self soothing
At moments when nothing else works (baby still very young, sick or or otherwise uncomfortable) this is fine for a while. Do start self soothing practice as soon as you are both up to it though.
My self soothing guide will show the necessary must-do's and give you the specific techniques to wean from each of these habits.
cries and I don't know why
for each of these possibilities, even if symptoms are not 100% clear:
Uncomfortable lying down: this may be caused by a stuck nerve or bone for which an osteopathy treatment is an option
Food intolerances and/or allergies: if you suspect this: contact your pediatrician or contact me to discuss options.
cries as soon as I leave the room
the cause, remedy if possible and progressively re-install baby's
Your baby or toddler may be going through a phase of separation anxiety, which you can overcome best by striking a balance between gentle reassuring and positive encouragement towards independence.
Combine with self soothing practice and the hourly wakings action plan as necessary.
Also, ensure that the bedroom is not too dark (use a good night light), and that you have a pleasant and reassuring bedtime routine in place.
|None of the above||There
is still help for you here - your baby or toddler is just not having
one of the top most common sleep issues.
Depending on your preference, you can either:
1. Browse the FAQs to read advice that I have previously given to parents with similar symptoms
2. Search this site for easy referral to articles that fit your baby's issue
3. Contact me for private e-mail counseling so that I can advise and guide you in your specific situation right now