99% of parents experience sleep
first year, and often beyond. Broken
are of course
the top cause and leave many moms and dads feeling tired
And it's hard, I know. But we can work on it. So let's take a look at what we can do to improve your own sleep.
Understanding Sleep Deprivation Effects
From chaotic newborn sleeping patterns to teething and tantrum sleep
scenes, our sleep is so easily disturbed.
Even a few broken nights can make you feel tired all day,
have less energy, you may find it harder to concentrate and you
often feel a bit sad.
The good part is that our bodies,
especially women's, are able to
adjust rather well and to keep going in spite of the lack of sleep. But there are limits and it's important to keep taking good care of yourself.
A few things you can do:
Remember, and remind yourself,
that things will get better.
After the chaotic first weeks and months, your baby will start sleeping
more and better, and so will you! It may look like a dream far away,
but better times are ahead! This may not be a big help at the toughest
times but it is a fact to hang on to.
that it is absolutely alright to feel a bit sad or emotional.
Knowing that it is the lack of sleep doing this, and not you not
to it, gives you the confidence to keep going. If you feel it's all too overwhelming and you can't take another sleepless night, contact me, I'm here to help!
A cure for Sleep Deprivation Effects?
It sounds all too easy, but sleep
is of course the single
best cure for sleep deprivation.
Unfortunately, getting more sleep is often easier said than done
when you have a newborn baby, maybe older children, household and work
activities to be dealt with too.
So, What can you do?
Accept help. Don't hesitate to ask and accept help
from your partner, family or friends. Many moms feel
ashamed or guilty to do this, but there is no need to!! Having a young
baby is not easy and it's perfectly alright to get help.
Remember how it is in today's society that we are expected to do
so many things alone. In the old
days, all young
moms had mothers, sisters, aunts, etc. who were there all the time to help out.
If you can find someone to look after your baby for an hour, an
afternoon or maybe a night: don't hesitate!
And take that time to recharge
your batteries. It's amazing what a few hours of sleep or just some relaxing can do.
You can feel so much stronger again after that.
Besides accepting help, the following will also help you:
well: just like for your baby, a regular sleep schedule
and a bedtime routine helps adults sleep better too. Within what's
possible with baby's sleep, try to go to sleep and wake up at regular
times when possible.
eating and drinking: drink plenty of water and eat healthy
meals with lots of fruit and vegetables. Avoid alcohol, coffee and tea
in the afternoon and evening as they may make you sleep worse. Herbal
tea, a glass of warm milk, yogurt, a banana, etc. are all good.
in a bit of, preferably dark, chocolate. Chocolate is known to improve
your mood. Eat it early on in the day as it can also be a stimulant.
Do something you lOve
whenever you have a moment (whether it's an hour or just 5 minutes!). Do something you really like (put on your favorite
music, watch a movie, go out for a walk, etc.) or try some simple
The effects of sleep deprivtion can be really daunting and can make
you feel really bad, even desperate. Remember to keep taking good care of yourself
and seek help, start with sending me a message here
if you like. Hang in there!
deprivation or postnatal
depression in later infancy: Separating the chicken from the egg Armstrong et al. Journal
of Paediatrics and Child Health, Volume 34, Number 3, June
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