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3 ways to use a night light for better sleepSimple nightlights

A night light in the baby room helps your baby and toddler sleep in three different ways:
  1. It's reassuring in the dark: especially helpful during baby separation anxiety phases
  1. Minimal arousal at night awakenings: critical for more and better sleep for baby and you
  1. A timed alarm clock light effectively helps your early bird toddler sleep longer
Let's examine these three uses in detail right below. The reason that's most important to you right now will also help you choose the right type for your situation.

But first, what makes a good night light overall?  

What makes a good night light for the baby room?

Choosing well is not complicated but it is important to get one that does what you need:
  1. It must be so dim that you don't see it through your eye lids when your eyes are closed

  2. It must be bright enough so you can tend to baby at night (for feeding, changing, comforting, ...) without switching on additional light.
When checking the brightness of your light: remember that light will always seem very dim during the day or with other lights on.

But at night, when you've been in the dark and/or sleeping, that same light will appear much brighter. It's the 'night time' feel that you want to judge by.

Reason #1: Reassuring in the dark

Turtle nightlight by Cloud B

Whether it's a newborn baby, a toddler or a bigger child: there is good chance she will not feel safe in a pitch dark room.

A soft night light is reassuring and helps make your baby feel safer.

Feeling safe and secure is one of the basic 'conditions' to be able to sleep - to put it boldly, imagine trying to sleep in a room where you feel threatened by gangsters ...

Choose a fun light, with decorations she likes, or one that emits soft glowy lights.

The Cloud b Twilight Constellation Turtle is adored by many (!) parents and babies.

And of course, not all babies need a light ...

For my own children, a night light only started to seem important from around 4-6 months old. Especially my oldest son, who slept really well in those first months, was happy in a pitch dark room. But after the first half year, the light quickly became rEAlly important ...

In any case, whenever your child seems to sleep poorly and you think she may not feel safe - like during a separation anxiety phase: a night light often does the trick well.

Reason #2: No-fuss night awakenings

Safety 1st light

One key to help your baby with sleeping through the night, is to keep night awakenings as short as possible, in order to disturb sleep minimally.

From your side at least, you will keep these nightly encounters as "low profile" as possible.

That means you make these moments boring, interact as little as possible and ... keep lights dim. Ideally you will have a dimmed lighting throughout the night that is not disruptive to sleep but at the same time enough to allow tending to your child.

A simple plugged light, like my personal first choice Safety 1st Nightlight is the most practical option.

The specific reasons why you want to avoid needing to switch on extra (bright) light at night are that:
  • Baby may startle and wake up more than she would: this makes it more difficult to go back to sleep

  • Our bodies take light as a powerful wake-up signal (also known as ... "PLAY TIME!" to the little ones): again more difficult to go back to sleep. And too much disruption of an already fragile sleep pattern.
So a gentle dim light that is on all night is ideal.

Reason #3: Avoid early bird toddler awakenings

Kid'Sleep alarm clock

One of the most typical toddler sleep problems is waking up early in the morning. You know, those early hours when you would give anything to get that extra half hour sleep? And be able to sleep till at least 7am ... or maybe even 8am or later?

A timed light set up as a toddler alarm clock is the way to go.

You can easily set one up for free or get a cute ready-made one: check the page on night light alarm clocks for toddlers for full details and my Top 3 recommendations.

Use my monitor reviews to find a sound or video device to suit you: some have built-in night lights