3 ways to use a night light for better sleep
A night light in the baby room helps your baby
and toddler sleep in three different ways:
- It's reassuring in the dark:
especially helpful during baby
separation anxiety phases
- Minimal arousal at night
awakenings: critical for more and better
sleep for baby and you
- A timed alarm clock
light effectively helps your early
Let's examine these three uses in detail right below. The reason that's
most important to you right now will also help you choose the right
type for your situation.
But first, what makes a good night
What makes a good night
light for the baby room?
Choosing well is not complicated but it is important to get one that
does what you need:
- It must be so dim
that you don't see it through your eye
lids when your eyes are closed
- It must be bright
enough so you can tend to baby at night
(for feeding, changing, comforting, ...) without switching on
When checking the brightness of your light: remember that
will always seem very dim during the day or with other lights on.
But at night, when you've been in the dark and/or sleeping, that same
light will appear much brighter. It's the 'night time' feel that you
want to judge by.
Reason #1: Reassuring in the dark
Whether it's a newborn baby, a toddler or a bigger child: there is good
chance she will not feel safe in a pitch dark room.
A soft night light is reassuring and helps make your baby feel safer.
Feeling safe and secure is one of the basic 'conditions' to be able to
sleep - to
put it boldly, imagine trying to sleep in a room where you feel
threatened by gangsters ...
Choose a fun light, with decorations she likes, or one that emits soft
b Twilight Constellation Turtle
is adored by
many (!) parents and babies.
And of course, not all babies need a light ...
For my own children, a night light only started to seem
important from around 4-6 months old. Especially my oldest son, who
slept really well in those first months, was happy in a pitch dark
room. But after the first half year, the light quickly became rEAlly
In any case, whenever your child seems to sleep poorly and you think
she may not feel safe - like during a separation
phase: a night light often does
the trick well.
Reason #2: No-fuss night awakenings
One key to help your baby with sleeping
through the night
, is to keep night awakenings as short as
possible, in order to disturb sleep minimally.
From your side at least, you will keep these nightly encounters as "low
profile" as possible.
That means you make these moments boring, interact as
little as possible and ... keep lights dim. Ideally you will have a
dimmed lighting throughout the night that is not disruptive to sleep
but at the same time enough to allow tending to your child.
A simple plugged light, like my personal first choice Safety
is the most practical option.
The specific reasons why you want to avoid needing to switch on extra
(bright) light at night are that:
- Baby may startle and wake up more than she would: this makes it
more difficult to
go back to sleep
- Our bodies take light as a powerful wake-up signal (also known as
... "PLAY TIME!" to the little ones): again more difficult to go back
to sleep. And too much disruption of an already fragile sleep pattern.
So a gentle dim light that is on all night is ideal.
Reason #3: Avoid early bird toddler awakenings
One of the most typical toddler sleep problems is waking up early in
the morning. You
know, those early hours when you would give anything
to get that extra
half hour sleep? And be able to sleep till at least 7am ... or maybe
even 8am or later?
A timed light set up as a toddler alarm clock is the way to go.
You can easily set one up for free or get a cute ready-made one: check
the page on night
light alarm clocks for toddlers
for full details and my Top 3
Use my monitor
reviews to find a sound or video device to suit you:
some have built-in night lights