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Throughout this site, I discuss many baby sleep issues.

But no two babies and families are the same: I know your situation may require specific personalized advice.

I will be answering your questions from my research, from my experience as a mother of two and from my passion for everything related to children and sleep.

My understanding of infant sleep through the research I have studied for 10+ years ensures that my real-life advice is also supported by scientific facts.

I've been working as a breastfeeding counselor since 2004, a lovely experience where sleep issues are everyday topics too (no worries, I'm not a fanatic and support each mom's personal choice of feeding!).

For more about me, you are most welcome to read my story.

Yours truly, Heidi

Sleep parenting adviser & author Baby-Sleep-Advice.com 

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Hi Emily,

I'm assuming you are nursing or feeding Kassandra ...

My eight month old has a cold and is napping a lot  Question:

Hi there,

My eight month old got a cold two days ago and today he has been sleeping for about three hours... should I wake him? He rouses ...

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Hi Heidi! wanted to tell you A GREAT BIG THANKS for your tips on self soothing the gentle way! Our little girl is now 8 1/2 mos old and has been going to sleep more and more awake since trying the technique. She now goes down completely awake falls asleep in 10 min and goes back to sleep at night when she wakes! She sleeps 10-11 hours a night and her naps have gone from 30-45 min to 1 - 2 hours! All with out the severe and harsh crying it out methods! THANKS! Anne - Omaha, NE
Thank you so much Heidi for your caring and thorough advice. We have carefully followed your plan and couldn't be happier with how Elena is now sleeping: she settles all by herself in her crib at naps, needs just a bit of comfort at night when she wakes which is only once a night!!! Mary - TX
Hello Heidi, I have asked you a few questions in the past and your advice has always helped us immensely with our very spirited 14 month old baby boy's sleep! Thank you! Justine - California
Hi Heidi. I am back with some good news again. I've taken your advice and started to reduce the night feeds to 2.  After some days he got used to it and the move from 2 to 1 and from 1 to 0 feeds went more or less automatically. Thanks again for your great help, news letters and your advice online which I find very useful! Claudia
Hi Heidi - thanks for your email.  Charlotte is doing much better.  We moved her bed against another wall,  the first night was horrible,  but after that she has been sleeping much longer.  Most nights she is not getting up.  On the nights she wakes,  we have been letting her fuss for a bit and usually she goes back to sleep,  and if not,  she's only up for 15 minutes max and then back to bed.  I really appreciate all of your suggestions,  quite a few worked like a charm! Carla - Canada
Good news: we now have a schedule! Thanks again for your great advice! I certainly will recommend your homepage. Claudia